[Video] Dreaming with AI: Chinese women create online the life they long for

The first type of AI vlogs highlights the toll of China’s demanding work culture, capturing the realities of gruelling night shifts, layoffs, pay cuts and the infamous 996 work schedule. Burnout, poor health and disillusionment are the price many pay just to survive in an unforgiving job market. In a digital world full of gloss, these AI vlogs dare to show the unglamorous truth.

The second type portrays solitude as an ideal state. These videos feature mostly women shopping, dining out or relaxing at home alone. Many Chinese women fear marriage, dreading lost freedom, stalled careers and economic insecurity. Even friendships can be draining, making solitude a sanctuary for autonomy and self-love. A 2024 survey by China Youth Daily and Wenjuan.com reflects this shift: 53% prefer online communication, while 68% feel that their offline social skills have declined.

Another theme that has gained traction is simplicity. Unlike the grand dreams once scribbled in childhood diaries of wealth and success, these vlogs imagine a simple life: a cosy home, a stable job with clear boundaries, and modest savings for peace of mind. In a society marked by economic uncertainty and limited prospects, many adapt by finding comfort in the little things. What were once seen as stepping stones have now become end goals for many. And that is the irony — when even simplicity feels out of reach, the only way to live it is through AI.

There is also warmth in these videos. In place of real-world connections, an empathetic online community has become a vital source of comfort and solidarity for these exhausted youths. Viewers leave comments to care for one another, offer advice or simply vent.

It is perhaps no surprise that many of these quiet-life vlogs are created by women. Online, we see countless videos reflecting the pressure to do it all: succeed at work, run the household, care for family and friends, all while staying composed and looking effortless. But many are tired. So they turn inward, choosing solitude and simplicity, guarding their time, energy, space and peace. What they cannot enjoy in real life, they can at least imagine.

And in these AI vlogs, everyday voices rise, giving strength to those too often unheard, and building a hopeful community that listens without judgment.

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